Gareth Thomas: Ex-Wales rugby captain has HIV


Former Wales rugby captain Gareth Thomas has revealed he is HIV positive, saying he wants to “break the stigma” around the condition.

He said he wants to show how people with HIV are misrepresented as “walking around with walking sticks who are close to dying”.

He has also spoken about “shame” and “fear” of keeping his condition secret.

The ex-British and Irish Lions skipper is due to talk about his diagnosis in a BBC Wales documentary on Wednesday.

In it, the 45-year-old says at his lowest point in 2018 he felt like dying.

Prince William led the thousands of messages supporting Thomas after his emotional revelation.

“Courageous as ever – legend on the pitch and legend off it,” said atweet from Kensington Palace.

“You have our support Gareth. W.”

Gareth Thomas

Gareth Thomas started his Ironman Wales in the west Wales seaside town of Tenby on Sunday

Public information campaigns in the 1980s, warning people to take precautions against Aids, have left a legacy of misunderstanding, he says.

Advances in medicine now allow people who are HIV positive to live long healthy lives. With effective treatment, the virus cannot be passed on.

Other than waking at 06:00 to take a single pill every day and visiting the hospital for blood tests every six months, the condition has little impact on day-to-day life for Thomas.

On the contrary, he is taking part in an Ironman challenge on Sunday, which has involved him learning to swim, which to Thomas was a way of demonstrating his physical and mental strength.

“When I first found out that I was going to have to live with HIV, the first thing I thought was straight away: I was going to die,” he said.

“It’s not like I blame people for not knowing this.

“This is a subject that because of the 80s scenarios people don’t talk about it because that’s the only information they have.”

He added: “The overriding question that everybody said to me – the first question everyone says to me when I tell them I’m living with HIV – is ‘Are you going to be OK?’

“And it’s a really compassionate question to ask. But, this is meant the nicest way possible, it’s a really uneducated question.”

Thomas said revealing that he is living with HIV was similar to coming out as gay in 2009 because of “the fear, the hiding, the secrecy, the not knowing how people are going to react”.

“But I think when it was all about my sexuality it just seemed like there was more empathy and more understanding because you had more knowledge, because you could turn on the telly and you could see that there was LGBT representation on most platforms.”


Presenting a shirt to then Prime Minister David Cameron in 2011 at a meeting of sports figures to discuss homophobia and transphobia in sport

Image captionPresenting a shirt to then Prime Minister David Cameron in 2011 at a meeting of sports figures to discuss homophobia and transphobia in sport-CARL COURT/GETTY IMAGES

Who is Gareth Thomas?

25 July 1974:Born in Sarn near Bridgend

1994: Makes debut for home town club Bridgend and goes on to play for Cardiff Blues (twice), Celtic Warriors and Toulouse

1995:Makes his Wales debut and goes on to win 100 caps, scoring 40 tries and also appearing in three British Lions Tests

2005: Wins the 2005 Heineken Cup with Toulouse and captains Wales to their first grand slam in 27 years

2007: Wins his final cap for Wales in the World Cup

2009: Reveals he is gay, saying “what I choose to do when I close the door at home has nothing to do with what I have achieved in rugby”

2010: Thomas switches codes to rugby league

2011: Announces his retirement, last appearing for Crusaders in Wrexham in July

2012:His post-rugby career includes Celebrity Big Brother, roles in pantomime, regular work as a rugby pundit and campaigning against homophobia in sport. Hollywood actor Mickey Rourke is involved in talks to play him in a film

2014: Publishes his autobiography, Proud, which wins sports book of the year

2015:His life story is told in a stage play, Crouch, Touch, Pause, Engage

2018: He posts a video on Twitter after being assaulted and becoming victim of a hate crime in Cardiff. Took part in Sport Relief, when he conquered his fear of heights with the fire service


Thomas, who finished third in Celebrity Big Brother in 2012 and reached the semi-final of Dancing on Ice the following year, lives near Bridgend with his husband Stephen, 56. They married in 2016.

In the documentary, Stephen talks about how the public will react to Gareth’s announcement and how the couple will be treated.

“I’m going to have to take it on board and deal with it,” he says.

“I’m going to cross it when I come to it.”

Stephen, who does not have HIV, added: “I think it’s going to teach so many people what is HIVI was one of the ignorant ones, I will be honest, like so many people.”

“I think it’s a fantastic thing he’s doing. He’s showing that you can have HIV but you can still do the sport and the Ironman, for goodness sake.”

When you have a secret that other people know about it makes you really vulnerable towards them. And I just I felt like I had no control over my own life
Gareth Thomas

The documentary shows Thomas’s anxiety and having to consult legal representatives after a tabloid newspaper found out about his HIV status. It led to journalists going to his parents’ home.

“I needed to take control of my life” he said.

“When you have a secret that other people know about it makes you really vulnerable towards them. And I just I felt like I had no control over my own life.”

Thomas said he currently felt the strongest he had ever been in his life.

“I’ve had a shitty rollercoaster of a ride. My parents say to me ‘Jesus Christ. What’s coming next with you?’.

“I had the whole emotional challenge of revealing my sexuality and confronting the sporting stereotype within that.

“And then I felt ‘I’m confronting this’, which has so many similarities.”

In the film he confides in Shane Williams, another former Wales international turned amateur triathlete and actress Samantha Womack.


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